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Leadership Matters. Integrity Matters.

We help leaders unravel the complexities of relationships in order to transform their lives, families and organizations.

Your Integrity Determines Your Influence.

We help leaders unravel the complexities of relationships in order to transform their lives, families and organizations.

 

 

Leadership Matters. Integrity Matters.

We help leaders unravel the complexities of relationships in order to transform their lives, families and organizations.

 

 

Your Integrity Determines Your Influence.

We help leaders unravel the complexities of relationships in order to transform their lives, families and organizations.

Individuals, Couples & Families

Personal coaching and counseling can be powerful gateways to wholeness and healing.

Business & Organizational Leaders

Maximize your leadership potential through individual or team coaching & organizational development.

Events

Strengthen your key relationships at one of our WorkshopsRetreats, or Speaking engagements

“You will not find more genuine and committed people interested in the well-being of you, your family, or your organization. Not only are they eminently qualified to do what they do, but they genuinely care about not just the results achieved, but the process by which those results are achieved.”

Britney Colton  -Chief Human Resource Officer, Stoel Rives LLP (Law Firm)

The Power of Leaders Who Listen

You may have heard us say that if you have a following, you are a leader. That means whether you are a mom, a pastor, or the CEO of a Fortune 500 company, you are a leader, and how you lead matters. Listening is one key strategy that helps leaders live with integrity. Many people assume they are great listeners. It’s a skill set we know is important, yet fail to practice. Despite optimistic beliefs about our own listening skills, it’s true that we often find ourselves lacking in the practical application of it during times we need it most: comforting a hurting child, addressing conflict in marriage, working out a misunderstanding with a friend, or navigating personality differences at work.

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Betrayal Trauma and the Way Forward

What is Betrayal Trauma? (Betrayal trauma is a reality for both genders; however for the sake of clarity, female pronouns will be used.)

In her book Intimate Deception, Sheri Keffer defines betrayal trauma as, “the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or significant other when there has been a commitment to exclusive fidelity. A violation of trust occurs when your spouse or significant other uses deception and manipulation to put more time, emotional and sexual energy or resources into another entity. This includes pornography, emotional and physical affairs, cybersex, hookups, flirting, sexting, massage parlors, prostitution, strip clubs, child pornography, sexual fetishes, cross-dressing, or undisclosed relationships with the same sex (2018).“ Regardless the type of betrayal, this kind of relational trauma undermines the committed relationship and can profoundly impact the well-being of the betrayed.

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Reframing the Role of Fatherhood

So many men I meet in my practice struggle to communicate their true feelings, and therefore, often fail to connect to their children. They often believe (mistakenly) that conforming to expectations — of stoicism, respect, relevance, being a provider, or a ‘man’s man’ — is somehow devoid of vulnerability. Because of this belief system, men find that their relationships with their children and loved ones are often defined and confined by unmet expectations and disappointment. This is not how it was intended, nor how how it needs to be. 

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Leadership Matters. Integrity Matters.

Living Wholehearted is an organization committed to helping leaders live with integrity. Real leadership has more to do with one’s character and how it’s lived out, than it has to do with a title. When leaders of all types LIVE and LEAD with integrity, everyone in their wake benefits; when they do not, everyone in their wake pays. It’s just a matter of time.

Integrity is where every part of your life, your mind, heart, soul, actions and relationships, are all moving in the same direction. Our counseling, consulting and coaching services help you shrink the integrity gap that exists in all of us between the values we espouse and our values in practice.  Your effectiveness as a leader and the quality of all your relationships whether at home, work or play, are linked to your ability to live and lead with greater integrity.  Let us help you become the kind of leader you would follow.

Become the leader you would follow.

If you are interested in working together, send us an inquiry and we will get back to you as soon as we can!